About a month ago my mom had surgery to remove a benign tumor in her head. But, being more than just a few states away there wasn't much I could do but offer support over the phone and pray for her recovery. We sent a care package but never took part in her imediate care. My siblings were the ones to organize meals, transportation, and support while she was in the hospital. It's a weird thing to hear about your mother undergoing such a surgery and seeing pictures of it but never seeing it happen in person.
My mom went home and went on in her recovery.
Except she didn't fully recover and last night had to have a second surgery in the hopes that she can fully recover. And it is expected that she will. But, again, my siblings are there round the clock, taking in what the doctors have to say etc. I'm here. So how do I still be a daughter even though I'm not actually helping her in some way?
Well, you make the night she has surgery to be the night you will decorate Halloween cookies with your kids just like you used to do when you were a kid.
That's how.
Carol you are a great mom and I know that your mom knows you love her and as you love her grandkids you are doing something very tangible to love her.
ReplyDeleteThanks Mel. Always good to hear your voice.
ReplyDeleteCarol, I am sorry to read of this. On one hand, I cannot imagine this situation. On the other, I live at a distance from my best friend in the world and oftern fear this situation. Carrying on tradition and trying to stay upbeat was a great idea. :) Love to you all.
ReplyDeleteApril, thank you. You are a dear.
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